Chat request from girl


I had no idea of what went on here, if I'd known I would probably never have joined.I refused to meet a few people in the early days who kept asking for more pics, I thought they were just collecting pics for some reason!I have met girls who've only got one pic, I've met girls who've had none... In the same way that some people can choose to put up just one picture, or none at all, so even other people can choose to just ignore/avoid them One thing that REALLY annoys me about profile pictures, that's when a person has "Private Images" and states in their profile that they "may show you if I like you"........what's THAT all about???To my way of thinking they are a) horrendously ugly and it's the only way they can get anyone to send them a message, orb) they have naked/sexy pics, and don't want neighbours or workmates to see them If you have a pic, then show it for all to see.just as there are thousands of other members with a full gallery for me and others who think like me to interact with.If I was looking to date, I would definately not go by just one picture. I only have one on, as I cba with the whole dating scene, and am here purely to join in with all the fun and frolics :)Well, I just had another chat request. She was gorgeous and seemed to have a genuine profile, but I read those 6 dreaded words:"I am a born again Christian"I told her that because of this, we would argue, I would win and her entire world-view would be shaterred. As far as Im concerned chat requests from randoms that you havent spoken to before opens up a whole can of worms!I can give as good as I get (and some), so they soon lose interest.In my innocence when I first started on this site I put a pic up as requested and couldn't understand why people kept asking for more.



Error Banner.fade_out.modal_overlay.modal_overlay .modal_wrapper.modal_overlay [email protected](max-width:630px)@media(max-width:630px).modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:hover:before. I fail to see how that is relevant to someones opinion on the amount of pictures they'd like to see of a potential date, if you've had lots of success from one picture then great, same for anyone with no pictures...it's working for them and they're happy with what they're getting then cool.I'm in the camp that like to see a few pics, not because i think one pic could be a fake but because i'd like to have as good idea as possible of someone's general appearance before i give up some of my free time to go and meet them, if i ignore or overlook someone with one picture it's no great loss to them seeing as there are thousands of other members who won't think like i do on this subject....When I have suggested they take a hike and that I am sure they will find plenty of women willing to get into that type of discussion they have basically said they were glad I didn't respond to the question because they were sick of women that just wanted a sh*g and I had proven I wasn't one of them.

Are things really that bad that decent guys are having to play a game of bluff to find out which women are just after a cheap fling.

Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. I dont mind the chat requests but its the random ones from ones that dont even message you first wind me up, you click on to have a peek at there profile then they get hump cos they think your ignoring them [email protected] 6Agreed.