Dating a man not yet divorced

But there can be no future with a man who is legally bound to another woman.In my judgment, it’s best to leave married folks to themselves to work out their differences and decide what they are going to do about the future of their marriage.But still being married to him is a whole other level of embarrassment. When you tell people—dates or otherwise—you’re separated, they ask the following questions, in this order: “How long have you been separated?” When I tell them it’s been over a year now, the next question is always, “So how come you’re not divorced yet?There is no "you and him." There is "him and her"—and, to put it bluntly, you are a figment of his imagination.Part of the joy of falling in love is envisioning a future with the person you love.And falling in love with a married man is like nicking away at your heart with your own knife.It’s a self-inflicted wound that drains the life out of you, no matter what rationalization you (or he) come up with to defend the relationship.

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Trust your inner wisdom on this one: you are at risk of giving your heart away to a man who is still married to another woman.

In the meantime, you deserve to be loved by someone who loves you so much that he will go to great lengths not to hurt you. He’s out there, and he’s not asking you to nick away at your own heart in order to be with him.