However, most people would be surprised to learn that the root cause of hypersexuality, or so-called “sex addiction,” is hardly ever related to sex.“Why am I like this?” is the most common question I encounter, as a sex researcher working with hypersexual men.Problems with pornography and cheating have had severely detrimental effects on their lives and they are desperate for a solution.After ruling out bipolar disorder or borderline personality disorder as the underlying condition (as high-frequency sexual behaviour is a common symptom of these disorders), this is what I have found.He says he doesn’t want a divorce from his wife because he loves his two young children, but feels trapped and doesn’t know what else he can do. ”Other hypersexual men have paraphilias (or kinks), and they only find sex satisfying when incorporating these kinky activities.Some men cheat regularly because they prefer the novelty of a new sexual partner to sex with someone they’ve had sex with before. Others are afforded extra sexual attention due to having been blessed with good looks, and choose to indulge themselves. If their committed partner is not interested or willing, they will seek sex outside of the relationship with partners who are.
Participants provided information on their marital status, living arrangements and self-reported health.The current study examined associations between frequency and importance of sexual behaviours and quality of life in older adults.Method: one hundred and thirty-three participants (mean 74 years, SD = 7.1) provided information about the frequency with which they participated in six sexual behaviours and the perceived importance of these: touching/holding hands, embracing/hugging, kissing, mutual stroking, masturbating and intercourse.He desperately wishes that he could be fulfilled by vanilla sex.