My single friend dating agency
I have an idea of how you are supposed to behave, and how I want you to behave. But it's too much work to actually communicate them so I will just use the handy word of "friend" which really has no meaning by itself, only what I define it as. If she dates you and doesnt like you she can always pull the "I have always said I wanted to be friends"...Plus in all likelihood you will judge me as 'bad' or 'wrong' for some of the things in my behavior limitations so I am not going to be direct with them, you have to read my mind, and know it's inherent in my definition of 'friends'.""IOW I want the power to control your behavior towards giving me what I want, but I have no desire for the responsibility and possible negative judgments. BUT, will take advantage of "dating", meaning let the guy pay the first couple of times.....Many of us aren't interested in relationship/s/o live ins.We have no desire for those who are looking for those thing to contact us.If a girl says that to me, I catch them off guard by going, "Yeah, about that, I have enough friends."Why give a BS answer?Its not like they're going to go out of their way to hang out with you again.They've joined with the intent of being friends only to change their intent to dating/long-term later down the road.